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An Overview of Our Ceremony

Lynne & Keith Langille & Christiane Bristow
Canada's Most Innovative Wedding Officiants

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Ceremony Types Available:
Civil Marriage Ceremonies
Spiritual Ceremonies
Bilingual & French Ceremonies
Backyard & Home Weddings
Ceremonies Involving Children
Elopement Ceremonies
Casual & Cottage Type Ceremonies
Same Sex Marriages
Quebec Ceremonies
Theme Weddings
Co-Officiated Ceremonies
Second & Third Marriages
Destination & Cruise Weddings
High Profile Weddings
Baptisms & Naming Ceremonies
Renewal of Vows Ceremonies
Memorial Services

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Planning Your Wedding
Your Ceremony Venue
Your Planning Session
Your Wedding Budget
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Wedding Advisory Services
Your Wedding Rehearsal
Your Ceremony
Using Wedding Planners

Designing Your Ceremony
Writing Your Own Wedding Vows
Using Music Effectively
Entering with Flowers
Presenting Flowers
Involving Readers in Your Ceremony
Sample Readings to Consider
Including Parental Vows
Ceremonial Certificates
Using Bubbles and Flower Petals
Lighting a Unity Candle
Blending Sand Crystals
Wine Sharing
Including the 2nd Kiss
Taking Vows By Candlelight
Doves and Butterflies
Telling Your Story
The Wedding Tree

Ceremony Advice & How To’s:
The Top 5 Considerations
Why Most Wedding Ceremonies Fail
Introducing Innovation in Your Ceremony
Facing Your Guests
Signing Documents
Using Ushers and Escorts Effectively
Escorting the Bride
Using a Limousine
Arriving by Boat
Using a Carriage
Using an Aisle Runner
Promoting Your Wedding

Ceremony Considerations:
Effective Seating
Environmental Issues
Protecting Your Entrance
Honouring Your Culture
Creativity and Style
Remembering Loved Ones
Helping Your Photographers
Making the Most of Lighting
The Ceremony Order of Events
Making Your Ceremony Program
Reception Lines

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This is a graphic overview of our ceremony arranged in chronological order to be used for wedding planning. Many options are listed, but there are far too many to be used in any one ceremony. Most topics have an entire page dedicated to explaining their use. Click on the topics that interest you. In our wedding planning session with you, as your wedding officiant, we'll help you understand which options are best for you. With our guidance, you'll learn how to perform these options with confidence and grace.

Your Guests are Seated

The timely arrival of your guests is your first responsibility. Your invitation may need to include an easy to read map of where your ceremony and reception are taking place and the easiest ways of getting there. Music may be played but don't over-think your selections. Ushers invite people to be seated where ever they wish rather than on the groom's or bride's side thereby giving the audience a balanced look.

Read more on... Seating... Environment

Escorting of VIPs to Their Seats

The entrance of VIPs as they are escorted to their seats is the first act of a wedding ceremony. Generally, any grandparents are seated first, then step-parents, followed by birth parents. When the bride's mother is seated the ceremony officially begins.

Read more on...Ushers

Entrance of the Groom

We use a casual style in conducting our ceremonies, speaking to your guests in the familiar rather than using the official pronouncements of a magistrate. This demeanor encourages everyone to relax and enjoy your ceremony. Your guests are all friends and family and should be spoken to that way.

Entrance of the Bridal Party  (1st Insertion of Music)

We encourage couples to have their groomsmen escort their ladies (bridesmaids) to their places, each groomsmen then congratulates the groom in front of the on looking audience before taking his place. This action connects each groomsman to the groom, and accentuates the elegance of your ceremony.

Entrance of the Ringbearer and Flowergirl - Optional

There are roles for children of all ages in our ceremonies - from 6 months to 12 years. These little ones can play the traditional roles of ring bearer or flower girl, or can herald the bride's entrance as a bell ringer.

Read more on...Children in Weddings

Entrance of the Bride    (2nd Insertion of Music)

The ceremony's first emotional high point as all eyes turn toward the bride making her entrance. You have many choices on how you enter into your ceremony.

Read more on...Escorting a Bride... Entering with Flowers
Protecting Your Entrance... Entering by Carriage
Using a Limousine

Opening Welcome & Address to the Assembly

We use professional stage principles to create our exceptionally photogenic and evocative wedding ceremonies. We'll speak to you from amongst your guests, allowing every member of your audience to see and feel this moment with you, while your photographer and videographer have unprecedented access to you and your bridal party. Imagine how beautiful your wedding album and wedding video will be!

Read more on....Facing Your Guests

The Address to the Couple & The Expression of Intent

The Address to the Couple is a final occassion for the officiant to share some universally held philosophy about marriage and relationships with the couple. The Expression of Intent is a series of questions that's asked of the bride and groom freely confirming their intention to marry. Each in turn responds - "I Do." The Expression Of Intent is essentially the 'Mission Statement' of a wedding ceremony.

The First Reading - Optional

Readings are very effective at developing a sense of contribution from your audience as well as creating a photo opportunity for your wedding album. Consider inviting someone other than a bridal party member to do this for you.

Read more on...  Readers... Sample Readings

The Affirmation of Family and Friends & Exchange of Vows

The affirmation of family and friends is an opportunity to invite the active participation of your guests into the ceremony. The exchange of vows is an oath of fidelity. We will lead you through your exchange of vows by having you reed small groups of words - there is nothing to memorize. You are invited to share your own created vows with each other too, if you like.

Read more on....  Writing Your Own Vows

The Exchange of Rings

Your exchange of rings wording is repeated after us as you present each other a physical reminder of your love.

Just as in the exchange of vows, you can compose these words yourself if you wish.

The Second Reading - Optional

Two readers are ideal for most longer ceremonies. One reader is associated with the bride, the other the groom. If you or your family speak a second language, let that reading be in that language. You do not need to provide an English interpretation for the reading. The beauty of the language will speak for itself.

Read more on...  Readers..... Sample Readings

Lighting the Unity Candle - Optional  (3rd Insertion of Music)

Arguably the most popular of all western wedding traditions, the Unity Candle is used by couples of all faiths and philosophies and is not indicative of any religion.

Read more on... The Unity Candle

Sand Crystals - Optional (3rd Insertion of Music)

Another contemporary alternative to the Unity Candle is the joining of sand crystals. The bride and groom each rtake a vase of sand crystals join them in another common vase. This implies - once joined, never separated.

Read more on...   Using Sand Crystals


Giving Flowers to VIPs - Optional  (3rd Insertion of Music)
In our experience as wedding officiants, the giving of flowers is by far the most emotionally evocative and photogenic of all wedding ceremony options. Your guests will lean forward in their seats to watch you do this. Nothing rivets an audience like the giving of flowers to moms and grandmothers.

Read more on...   Giving Flowers... Entering with Flowers

Honouring Your Heritage - Optional  (3rd Insertion of Music)

There are many beautiful ways of honouring your heritage or faith during a wedding ceremony. Doing so, honours you and your attending family members as well, not to mention what it does for your photo album.

Read more on...  Honouring Your Culture

Taking Parental Vows - Optional

As your lives change on wedding day, so do those of your children. Why not honour them by taking a vow or parental commitment to raise them in a healthy, loving environment? If you wish, you can follow this by giving them a family medallion or similar gift to remind them of this day.

Read more on...   Making a Parental Commitment

Remembering Loved Ones - Optional

Many friends and family have contributed so much to your lives - not just the VIPs present whom you have honored with the giving of roses. If appropriate to you, you can honor these loved ones who have passed away by a beautiful act in memoriam.

Read more on...  Remembering Loved Ones

Signing the Legal Documents (4th Insertion of Music)

An excellent interlude in the ceremony during which you can interact with your guests while photos are posed and music plays in the background.

Read more on...  Signing Documents

Your Embrace & Introduction

Your guests will erupt in applause as the two of you embrace for the first time as husband and wife.

An audiences' response is governed by two important factors -
1) their belief that the bride and groom should be marrying each other, and 2) the quality of the ceremony in which you were married.

It follows then that if you put the right couple (you two) in the right ceremony (ours), the place is going to explode.

And trust us - it will!

Dove or Butterfly Release - Optional

Bird and butterfly releases accentuate the beginning of your married life in a very photogenic way. You can also have your immediate family gather around you for the big release.

Read more on...   Bird and Butterfly Releases

Your Recessional Walk (5th Insertion of Music)

Your walk down the aisle should involve your guests.we'll have your guests line the center aisle, shoulder to shoulder, facing inboard. As you and your lover walk between these guests, they'll shower you with petals, or ring hand bells, or blow bubbles, or applaud you. When performed with a great choice of music, the effects are dazzling.

Read more on....  Using Bubbles or Petals

You Kiss Again Midway Through Your Guests - Optional

With the sky full of balloons or the air alive with your guests ringing hundreds of bells, you kiss again - like on Melrose Place - in the midst of your guests.

Read more on...   The 2nd Kiss

Your Bridal Party Follows

Your bridal party members follow you down the aisle, at intervals, having their pictures taken as well. If you wish, they can join you in a reception line wherever you choose to stop.

You Receive Your Guests

This is where the compliments begin, and the compliments will go on all night. Brides and grooms have repeatedly said to us that they were told one thing over and over again at their receptions:

"That was the most beautiful wedding ceremony I have ever attended."

But talk is cheap, so please read for yourself what many couples wrote us about their ceremonies.

Read more on....Thank You Letters

Your Photo Session Begins

The images of you taken during our ceremony will easily rival those of you posed by your photographer afterward. That's because our bridal parties face their guests. And our rehearsal session will teach you the choreography and blocking that sets up truly beautiful wedding imagery.

Read more on... with many examples of this.

Reception

Your reception begins, already charged by the most beautiful, photogenic and moving ceremony your guests have ever seen. Imagine how good you'll feel as you accept the compliments of your guests as you party the night away.

A truly great ceremony sets up a truly great reception.


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

We are not just any Marriage or Wedding Officiant, Minister, Chaplain, Celebrant, Justice of the Peace, or Marriage Commissioner. We are the three most innovative and experienced Wedding Officiants in Canada and our passion in helping you achieve a spectacularly unique and personalized ceremony is what drives us. Call us at 613 831-7555 to see what we can do for you in helping you achieve your day of dreams.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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